When Pleasing You is Killing Me
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Are you one who likes to keep the peace even when it comes at a high emotional price for yourself? Do your attempts to resolve differences with a controller leave you feeling wrung out and discouraged? Do you sense that your best traits (goodness, kindness, cooperation) somehow become a disadvantage with an overbearing counterpart? These questions and many more are addressed in the book, When Pleasing You Is Killing Me.
With decades of experience as a psychotherapist, Dr. Les Carter takes you inside his counseling office, inviting you to share in real life stories of people just like you who are trying to make sense of persistent, controlling demands from all sorts of controlling people.
In the book, Dr. Carter will recount how real life pleasers developed relationship boundaries by incorporating assertiveness skills, ceasing unnecessary defensiveness, and setting aside false guilt for inner trust. Readers will be inspired to set their own pace in life, as opposed to letting the controller call the shots.
REVIEW: This book addresses People Pleasing and what it really means as it destroys your life and supports toxic relationships. I’ve given this book to so many people, I’ve lost count. Outstanding in his delivery, and as always Dr. Carter is direct, insightful, compassionate and respectful. The only disappointment I had with this book is that there is no audible version available. Highly recommend this book!
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